so I’m at fault

DOES THIS EVEN MAKE SENSE? Am I the one whose supposed to tell my friends “HEY IM LEAVING WE SHOULD HANG OUT!” Shouldn’t they love/care for me enough to realize I’m leaving them for a LONG TIME and they should initiate it? For my whole life, I’ve been the one to initiate everything and for once, i’d like someone to be a true friend and realize I’m leaving and tries to hang out with me before I leave. Instead people get mad at me for not asking them to hang out, I’m sick of being the one who always asks. I was going to just leave for boot, and if they realized before and asked to hang out I would be willing but if they didn’t even care to remember the date I step out of their lives then are they really my friends?